A Blessing for the Empty Place

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You sit in the empty place that is left,
After the death, the arrangements, the service,
The cards and calls and emails,
The departure of family,
The thank yous and acknowledgements.

Left with the emptiness,
The space that can never be filled
In quite the same way.

You see a shadow, hear a sound,
Taste a food she used to love,
Start to tell him something about your day,
Smell a blanket or pillowcase,
And your eyes and heart are filled with tears.

The first week, the first month, the first birthday,
The first holiday, the first anniversary,
These bring you to the place of remembering,
The place of exquisite, lonely sorrow.

Bless you and your memories.
Bless the tender heart that beats within you.
Bless the empty space that can never be filled.

The shadows, the smells, the tastes, the thoughts,
Transform their pain into blessings,
Signs that though you live in that desperately empty place,
She walks beside you,
He laughs in the shelter of your heart.

That empty place
That can never be filled
In quite the same way
Is filled
With love.

 
 
Find more of my prayers in my book Christ Beside Me, Christ Before Me: Celtic Blessings.

4 thoughts on “A Blessing for the Empty Place”

  1. Thank you, Beth, for this heartfelt post on recovering after the loss of a loved one. It is a beautiful piece and it captures those difficult and desperate moments that we all must experience after the passing of a loved one. Judy H., Evanston, IL.

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